Can Men & Women Be Friends?
My friend Jonalyn Fincher recently blogged on whether or not men and women can be friends. It's the topic of discussion at our next Salon Wednesday night, Oct. 17th. Thanks Jonalyn for getting the conversation startred.
“In so many ways our culture trains us to be unfit for friendship.”Paul Wadell as quoted by Dan Brennan, Sacred Unions, Sacred PassionsAfter we got married, my husband invited his long-time friends, B and his wife, A, to visit. Their kids came along. We took them Jeeping and ATVing. At one point B and I took the kids for a short trip down a side road.I was excited to show their daughter how fun an ATV was and felt proud of my off-roading skills. So when our quad slipped and the back wheel got lodged downhill under a log, I felt nervous and embarrassed. I waved B down for help. He circled around back and muscled the ATV out of the spot. Even though we were out of danger I still felt nervous.
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