Why Are You Still Single?
Stacy Boggs graduated from the United States Air Force Academy and served 5 years on active duty. After she completed her active duty service she was hired by Stryker Communications and has held various management positions within manufacturing operations. Stacy is currently a Business Unit Manager responsible for the production of medical integration systems and $60M in annual shipments. She is also active in her community and church, helping serve the needs of others.Stacy is my friend. Recently we were talking about a question she constantly gets asked. No it's not "was the Air Force Academy difficult" or "where did you serve in the military?" Or even "how stressful was your day at work?" No the question she most often gets asked is, "Why are you still single?" This is how Stacy feels about that question.
If I had a dollar for every time I’ve been asked that question…well, I might not be a millionaire, but I would probably have enough money to go buy that piece of furniture I’ve been eyeing at World Market for over a year. The most frustrating thing about it is that I still wouldn’t have the answer!I've felt for some time now that my community is unraveling. More often than not, my co-workers go home to their families instead of happy hour, my 30-something friends are lost among the church, and my long-time friends are busy managing their own work-life balance. Finding a buddy to hang out with on a Saturday night is not easy anymore. And dating? Well, it seems to be on everyone's mind.While reconnecting with a college friend, she asks, “Is there anyone special in your life?” Over the holidays, an uncle asks, “So, do you choose to be single?” The question isn’t all that unusual, and I know each person who asks is sincerely concerned for my happiness. Even the men who I have been on dates with ask the question, “Why are you still single?” Although, I suspect that sincerity is
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